Great lovemaking can improve intimacy in a relationship. Besides acting as a stress reliever, making love is an important way for couples to express their love. However in order for sex to be fun and to improve your sexual performance and confidence, there is one essential element that you need to work on. What I am referring here is sex positioning. When boredom creeps into your bedroom, getting creative and experimenting with the different sex positions is one of the ways to break the rut.
Here are a few sex positions that can help you to rekindle the spark in your sex life
(1) Reverse Doggie
You adopt doggie position facing away from your woman, while she lies on her back with her legs in the air. This position allows you to control the pace of your action and makes it easier for you to stimulate her clitoris when this erogenous spot is brushed against your genitals.
(2) Woman On Top
(a) She is facing you
She positions herself over the man's erected penis with her knees bent or on her feet flat against the man's waist. This position allows her complete movement control and gives her a lot of leeway to stimulate her clitoris by rubbing it against the man's body.
(b) She is facing away from you
This position increases the chance of you hitting her elusive G-spot. At the same time she can also use her hand to stimulate her clitoris.
(c) Doing on a chair (with no arm rest) facing you or away from you
Instead of you lying on the bed, you will be leaning against a chair. She will position herself to align her "love canal" to your "little brother". This offers her the same level of sexual pleasure that she experiences when you lie on the bed with her on top.
(d) Reverse frog squat
She leans forward against her knees facing away from you, adopting a squatting position like those of a frog. You lie on your back with your legs parted and penetrate her from behind. This position is ideal for those who wish for less penetration due to discomfort.
(3) Reverse Missionary
She lies on her back with her legs extended on the air. You face away from her, sit on her thighs and penetrate her. The angle of penetration can be very stimulating for her
(4) Modified Missionary
(a) Her legs extended in the air
The normal man on top position usually fails to bring a woman to reach orgasm because it is not able to provide stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot. One way to overcome this problem is to position her genitals at a higher level than your genitals so that when you penetrate her you increase the chance of hitting her G-spot. This can be done by raising her legs at 90 degrees to the air when she is lying on her back.
(b) Using a pillow
Another way to raise the level of her genitals against yours is to put a pillow under the lower part of her body.
(5) Modified Doggie
This is quite similar to the doggie position favored by most women. She kneels on the bed and let the upper part of her body to rest on the bed (or with a pillow under the upper part of the body) with her buttocks up in the air. You then penetrate her from behind. This position can also be replicated on a big soft chair where she kneels on the seat with the upper part of her body over the back of the chair. This position is good when she is pregnant but not suitable if she has a bad neck.
(6) Spoon Or Scissors
In this sexual position, you lie on your side with the bottom leg slightly bent. She lies on her side with her back facing you and you penetrate her with one of her legs on yours. Many people choose this position as the best way to achieve intense orgasm, possibly even multiple orgasms.
(7) Semi-Floating
She grabs the sides of a high stool or chair while you rest your hands under her waist to lift her off the ground. She wraps her legs around your waist and you penetrate her from behind.
(8) Modified Semi-Floating
She faces downwards with her shoulders resting on one side of the chair and her head leaning off the side of the chair facing towards the floor. You lift both of her legs to let them rest on your shoulders (make sure her hand grabs a part of the chair to prevent her losing balance) and you penetrate her with you in a standing position. This position may not be suitable for everyone because she may feel nauseated with her head pointing to the ground.
